See The World As It Is
See the Example
Layers of Confusion
Whenever you are in a panic or really worried about something, it may be useful to remember the following:
Most of the awful things we imagine never come true. And if they do, usually they are not without remedy. And even if they are not without remedy, they are not as bad as we first expected. And even if they are just as bad, we usually can endure them. And even if we cannot endure them, there is always something worse -- like dying. And even if we die -- well, what then?
Seeing the World As It Is
The first step in learning how to see the world as it is is simply to notice what is happening to your integrity and in your surroundings (the field).
For example: if you are sick or exhausted or in a panic usually you will have only a giddy grasp of things. Proud and boastful Panic steps forth as if he were King of the Roost! "Ah," you say, "it is you, I know you well." And this applies equally to fits of grandiosity, vanity, and self-abasement. You know that most of what these bully characters tell you is bullshit anyway, so why take what they are saying literally?
The key is to pay attention to the decisions you make and the actions you take when your integrity is compromised and your view of the world is skewed. In these situations you must ask yourself, "Am I in the best place (from integrity) to make this decision, or should I settle down and wait a bit?"
Paying Attention: Try practicing the following exercise. Note five times this week you paid attention and deferred a decision or action when your integrity was compromised, and note what you discovered about how the world really is.
Not Paying Attention: Then note five times this week you ignored the signs and acted or decided anyway and what you found out.
Layers of Discovery
Just as there are layers of confusion, there are also layers of discovery. The Latin origin of "discovery" (dis-coopire - "to cover") provides the essential clue: the discovery exists already in the recesses of the mind. We simply fail to see it. And this principle applies equally to an "invention" which finds its origin in the Latin word 'invenire,' "to find."
When we gather our integrity through the practice of steadiness, containment and gravitas we ground ourselves in such a way that our creative imagination can take flight and we begin to see and think about things we would not have conceived before. And what is most miraculous is we will also find important discoveries in the most mundane, trivial, and everyday occurrences--the ones that because they appear so insignificant pass most of us by.
Steadiness and Discovery: See if you can note five instances this week when you were steady and rooted and what you discovered about the quality of your decisions or actions.
Further Notes
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